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After a several-month posting hiatus, The Thai 5 are back to blogging! To start off, here’s a recap of what happened in 2011 and some plans for 2012. Thanks for reading!

 

2011 Highlights – some of the things that God did last year

TESOL Training Course – In January and February last year, Nathan took a 5-week course in Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages. The course was a blessing and prepared us for the next step in our ministry.

Moved – On June 4, several friends helped us move in order to be closer to North-Chiang Mai University (NCU). We can see the campus from our house!

Teaching English – In mid-June, Nathan began teaching an English class at NCU. This has given us great opportunities to build friendships with several students and teachers.

Homeschooling – In mid-August, Jessica started teaching our three kiddos at home. Matthias (grade 4), Abigail (grade 2), and Chloe (kindergarten) like their teacher a lot.

The kids making Christmas crafts

Visa Renewal – At the end of August our family traveled to Bangkok to renew our visas and work permit for another year. We’re thankful for God’s provision in this area, even if the train rides there and back turned out to be quite adventurous.

Meekness Seminar – During the first week of October, Nathan traveled to Bangkok and took a week long seminar on the Thai way of meekness. It was eye-opening and encouraging to gain some new insights into the culture of the people we’re serving.

The Centre – In November we partnered with The Centre, an established student ministry in Chiang Mai, to open up a branch next door to our home. By early December, we had begun teaching English classes in the evenings, another great way to get to know students.

Playing games during The Centre Christmas Party

 

2012 Plans – some things that, by God’s grace, will happen this year

The Centre – Throughout the next several months, we’ll continue moving forward with The Centre and trust God to open doors and grow this ministry in His timing and by His power.

Southeast Asia Grace Conference – In May our family plans to travel to Bali, Indonesia to attend the first ever TCM conference for countries in SE Asia.

Home Assignment – In September, after almost 4 years since we left the US, we’ll return to visit churches, family and friends.

Hello from the Thai 5! June has come to an end and God has been faithful to see us through another month. Moving, the start up of a new phase of our ministry, and a trip to Malaysia are just a few things we’re excited to share with you. Thanks for reading!

We Moved…Again!
Not long ago, a friend asked us, “You’re moving again? Didn’t you just move recently?” Well, it was only about 1 1/2 years since our last move, but yes, we moved again. We’re thankful for the many friends (and their vehicles!) who helped us throughout the process. After about a month of living in the new place we’re feeling settled in and enjoying the area.

Teaching at North
The purpose of this move was to be closer to North Chiang Mai University (NCU) where Nathan began teaching an English class in mid-June. This class meets twice a week and gives us an excellent opportunity to meet students and faculty at the school and build friendships with them. Please pray for the students at NCU. Also, please pray for us to have God’s wisdom as we endeavor to reach out to them with the love of Christ.

Jessica surprises her parents in KL

To Malaysia with Love
The same day Nathan began teaching at NCU, Jessica left for Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Her parents had arrived in KL just 12 hours before to begin their work there. It was a sweet reunion as Jessica surprised her parents and spent about 11 days helping them settle in to their new home. What a blessing to have family on the same continent!

Serving with Friends at Care Corner
In early June the LaVier family, some friends from the US, came to visit Thailand. Mark and Cindy (the daughter of TCM missionaries Joe and Pauline Watkins) and their daughters Hannah and Grace stayed with our co-missionaries the Maraats and prepared a special jump-rope presentation to share with the children at Care Corner Orphanage near our home. Following the presentation and training time, Nathan shared the gospel with The Loop of Life, an object lesson using a rope. It was fun for our entire family to serve the Lord together!

Abigail’s 7th Birthday
On the 29th of June, Abby turned 7 years old. We’re so thankful that God has blessed our family with Abigail and for the many ways He has caused her to grow, even since arriving here in Thailand. The Lord has given her a servant’s heart and joyful spirit.

Our family celebrates Abby's birthday

Sawatdee from the Kingdom of Thailand! The month of May has come and gone and much has happened in the meantime. Aside from the unseasonable amount of rain we’ve had (was that a boat?), we’ve been blessed with visitors, have kept busy packing, and have seen another school year come to an end. More about these things and other stuff below. Thanks for reading!

Friends from Afar
During the first week of May, our new friend Allen came to visit. Allen is a member of The Point, a church in the USA that supports our sending agency, Thing to Come Mission (TCM). For the past couple months, Allen has been traveling and doing ministry throughout Asia and praying about becoming a full-time missionary. Prior to his time in Thailand, Allen spent some time doing ministry with a team in other parts of Asia. Then, during his time here, he was able to see some of the tourist sights in and around Chiang Mai and get a view of our lives and ministry. Following his week here, he continued on to Cambodia to visit TCM missionaries Ariel and Faith Mahilum and Myra Omictin. Please be praying for this brother in the Lord as he trusts God’s leading for the future.

Kelly and our family at Buatong Waterfall

In mid-May, our good friend Kelly arrived for a two week stay. Kelly is a member of Faith Bible Church (FBC), the church we pastored in Olney, Illinois before moving to Thailand. Aside from bringing news of FBC and Olney, Kelly also helped us pack and move some during her time here. We’re grateful for the few days she spent helping us load and unload boxes, hang curtain rods and curtains, and put away other items. Also, we’re also thankful for the evening she offered to watch our kids so that we could enjoy a night out! Aside from putting her to work, we also spent time visiting some local sights, going shopping, and having fun.

Packing & Moving
Our official move date is June 4 and we have some friends planning to help us that day. However, we’ve been doing as much as possible ahead of time to make that day less hectic. In the process, we’ve made several trips from the house in World Club to the house in Ponprom. We’re already excited about getting settled in and beginning to teach at North Chiang Mai University. Please continue to be in prayer as we step into this new phase.

Matthias with his Home Country report

School Days
During May Matthias and Abigail had presentations at Grace International School (GIS). We enjoyed watching Abigail take part in a class play and poetry reading. It was also great to see Matthias give a report on his home country after putting so much work into his project. We also had fun on the last day of school (which was actually June 1) as each grade had a special presentation and students received awards for the year. As Matthias and Abigail finish 3rd and 1st grade respectively and Chloe prepares to enter Kindergarten, we’re trusting the Lord for the transition we’ll be making for next year as we begin homeschooling. We’re very thankful for GIS and also excited about this change for our family. At the same time, we’re aware that it will come with several adjustments. Please be in prayer for us as we prepare to start homeschooling in August.

Abigail the mouse with her rabbit story

Teaching English
May 30 saw the end of English classes at Nakhonping Church (NKPC), the Thai church our family has been a part of over the past year. Nathan and co-missionary Genesis Maraat began teaching two classes at NKPC in September 2011. Following a break in January and February for TESOL, Nathan resumed teaching the children’s class. Altogether the classes ran twice a week for about 6 months. Last Monday evening, it was a joy to have a special meal and celebration for the regular students that have been a part of the children’s class. Please pray for Nakhonping Church as well as the children who attended the class and has an opportunity to hear the Gospel.

Early Birthday Party
Abigail will turn 7 toward the end of June. However, some of her classmates, including her best friend, won’t be around Chiang Mai at that time. So we decided to have an early birthday party for her this year. Actually, this was Abigail’s first official birthday party with friends. Abby, her 6 girl classmates, and Chloe enjoyed playing at an indoor playground and then watching a princess movie and having pizza at a neighborhood restaurant. We’re so thankful to the Lord for Abigail and it’s such a joy to see the little lady she’s becoming.

Thai Wedding
In mid-May we attended the wedding of two friends who go to Nakhonping Church. It was an honor to have Matthias and Abigail be asked to take part in the wedding, filling the roles of Certificate Bearer and Flower Girl. Also, we’re thankful for this young couple who love Jesus Christ and desire to serve Him. We believe that in the enemy’s attack against the church, Satan often targets the family. With an extraordinarily high infidelity rate, Thailand is certainly no exception to this awful reality. Please pray for Yu and Joy as they begin their married life together in Christ.

Matthias, Abigail and Chloe at the wedding of our Thai friends

Our Anniversary
Speaking of marriages, Jessica and I celebrated our anniversary this month. It’s hard to believe that it was 12 years ago that we were standing at the altar! Much has changed since that time, but by God’s grace, we’ve grown from a family of two to five and God has faithfully led us each step of the way. In that time, God has taken us from Grace Bible College in Grand Rapids, Michigan, to Faith Bible Church in Olney, Illinois, and now to serving Him with Things to Come Mission in Chiang Mai, Thailand. God is so good and we can’t wait to see what He’ll do next!

Waiting

A couple Fridays ago, I went to the Chiang Mai Immigration Office. According to Thai law, all non-citizens must present their passports, along with the appropriate copies and forms, to be checked every 90 days. This standard procedure costs nothing, unless you miss the 90 day mark, in which case it’s a hefty 500 baht fine (about $16.50) per day, per person. Generally, the entire process—getting a number at the queue, waiting for your number to be called, handing in your passport and forms, and receiving back your passport—usually all of this takes no more than 15-20 minutes. That’s barely enough time to find a good seat and get into a book. However, there are times that the wait is a little longer. This last visit, for example, I sat for about 2 hours. Part of this was due to the fact that it was a Friday (along with Monday, they’re always the busiest days) and also that the office had been closed the previous Thursday through Tuesday.

After leaving, I got thinking about the reality of waiting. It’s something we all do, whether or not we live in a foreign country. We sit in the waiting room at the doctor’s office and stand in the line at the grocery store. We wait for a pregnancy to be over or for our house to sell. We wait for the right job to open up or the right person to come along. Impatiently, eagerly, expectantly, and sometimes even with tears, we wait.

In a life that is often occupied with waiting, the question is this: What do we do while wait? Are we twiddling our thumbs, just killing time until what we’re waiting for happens? The Scriptures have another perspective.

“You turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God, and to wait for his Son from heaven, whom he raised from the dead, Jesus who delivers us from the wrath to come.” (1 Thessalonians 1:9-10, ESV)

This verse is so encouraging. The believers in this church—former idol-worshipers whose lives had been radically changed as a result of receiving the word of God and believing in Christ—they are now waiting for Jesus to return. But, they’re not sitting idle while they wait. Not at all. Instead, they are serving.

What an example! We’re often required to wait, but it’s not necessary that we only wait. Our time is also to be filled with service to the Lord. Just read through 1 and 2 Thessalonians to see how much this church was doing for Him. Oh, Father, that I would use my time to serve Christ!

Also, what a reminder! Ultimately, it’s Christ we’re waiting for. Those other things and events that never seem to come soon enough all take a distant second place to Jesus. Lord, might my desire for lesser things diminish and my yearning for Christ increase!

Finally, what a challenge! The reality of Christ’s return motivates us, gives us resolve, a sense of urgency, and spurs us onward. Time is short and He’s coming back! God, may I know the brevity of life and redeem the time for Christ!

Rainy day in Chiang Mai

Hello once again from the Thai 5. The last week in Chiang Mai has been wet! Daily downpours have brought out umbrellas, raincoats, and extra bugs. Even so, the rain has provided a cool break from the heat, so we’re thankful. Here’s some of what’s been happening in the recent weeks. Thanks for reading!

Moving South to North
If you’ve already read our post Open Doors, Closed Doors, you know that the Lord has given us an opportunity to reach out to students at North Chiang Mai University (NCU), located just south of the town of Hang Dong. Since we shared that report, Nathan has met with professors at the school to discuss the details of the English class he’ll begin teaching in mid-June. The plan is for him to teach a sophomore level Listening and Speaking course with 21 students. Please pray for Nathan as he adjusts to this position and for the students that he’ll be teaching. And by the way, we’re not sure why the university is called “North” but is located south of the city.

Also, since signing the rental contract on our new house(s), we’ve spent some time getting things in order before we move in early June. We’re thankful that the owner paid to have it cleaned (a 1 year vacancy leaves a lot of dust and cobwebs!) and some yard work done. Even so, there’s been plenty to keep us busy until moving day on June 4. We’re excited to make the move and see how God will use that home for His glory.

Taking Opportunities and God’s Leading
During the TESOL training Nathan took earlier this year, he met several people from various countries, serving in a number of different ministries. One such individual is doing an internship at Care Corner Orphanage Foundation (CCOF) which is located about 6 kilometers from NCU and our soon-to-be-home. Upon completing the TESOL course, this friend was asked by the director of CCOF to conduct a month’s worth of English lessons for the 50 children, ranging from age 6  to 17 years, who live at the orphanage. Knowing she would need help, she contacted other TESOL students about the teaching opportunity. At that time, we had just begun surveying NCU and saw this as a great opportunity for Nathan to improve the skills he had learned as well as get to know the area near the university. So, for several weeks in March and April, Nathan helped teach English at CCOF. Little did we know that the director of CCOF would lead us to view the house we’ll be moving to next month. God is good!

Serving in a Thai Church
Since our family started regularly attending a Thai church about a year ago, we’ve looked for little ways we could help serve. At first, due to our still limited ability in the Thai language, this took shape in small things like helping wash dishes after the noon meal and sitting in on the children’s lesson. Overall, we were benefiting more through participating in the worship and listening to the sermon than we were serving. However, as time went by, we’ve been able to help out more and more. For example, we joined the rotation of teachers for the children’s class and have been teaching once a month since January. More recently, Nathan has had the opportunity to preach. Mostly he’s shared in English and an elder interpreted his message. However, just last month, he preached for the first time in Thai. Despite the simplicity of his message (not to mention the fear that accompanied it!), we’re thankful for the opportunity to share and the progress God’s granted in this language.

An Encouraging Visit
During the last week of April, Ben and Joyce Anderson, TCM’s Director and Member Care Coordinator, came to Thailand for a few days during their journey through SE Asia. We were encouraged and blessed by their fellowship and the challenges they gave us to press forward in the ministry here, especially as we look to enter a new phase in June.

Monday was a sad day at the Killion household as Gabby, one of our two 5-month old kittens, died after being attacked by some neighborhood dogs. Since we’re going to move in just over a month, we decided to bury Gabby in the yard at the new house. As we did so, we took the opportunity to talk to our kids and pray about the unpredictable nature of death and how very precious life is. It was a tender moment together as a family.

All of this has caused me to think about the awfulness of death and, more specifically, of people dying. As special as Gabby was to our family and as much as we’ll miss her, the terrible reality is that people are dying all around us everyday and entering into a Christ-less eternity. How saddened am I over this? Does my heart break that people are dying without knowing Jesus Christ? What am I doing to share Christ so that others will have the opportunity to trust Him and spend forever in Heaven rather than going to the Lake of Fire? These questions challenge me.

As I reflected on these things, several verses came to mind that reveal God’s heart about the death of unbelievers and what He has done. Here’s a few of them.

  • “Do I have any pleasure in the death of the wicked,” declares the Lord God, “rather than that he should turn from his ways and live?” ~ Ezekiel 18:23
  • “For I have no pleasure in the death of anyone who dies,” declares the Lord God. “Therefore, repent and live.” ~ Ezekiel 18:32
  • “Say to them, ‘As I live!’ declares the Lord God, ‘I take no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but rather that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn back, turn back from your evil ways! Why then will you die, O house of Israel?’” ~ Ezekiel 33:11
  • “You are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abundant in lovingkindness, and one who relents concerning calamity.” ~ Jonah 4:2, after God has spared the people of Nineveh)
  • “Should I not have compassion on Nineveh, the great city in which there are more than 120,000 persons who do not know the difference between their right and left hand, as well as many animals?” ~ Jonah 4:11
  • “I am telling the truth in Christ, I am not lying, my conscience testifies with me in the Holy Spirit, that I have great sorrow and unceasing grief in my heart. For I could wish that I myself were accursed, separated from Christ for the sake of my brethren, my kinsmen according to the flesh…my heart’s desire and my prayer to God for them is for their salvation.” ~ Romans 9:1-3, 10:1

  • “For many walk, of whom I often told you, and now tell you even weeping, that they are enemies of the cross of Christ, whose end is destruction, whose god is their appetite, and whose glory is in their shame, who set their minds on earthly things.” ~ Philippians 3:18-19, emphasis added
  • “The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance.” ~ 2 Peter 3:9
  • “For while we were still helpless, a the right time Christ died for the ungodly…God demonstrates His love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” ~ Romans 5:6, 8

These verses speak loudly and clearly of God’s love for the world, including those without Christ. This is a truth that I desire will impact me more and more each day and cause me to weep for the lost. Lord, please give me Your love for people dying all around me.

A couple weeks ago we shared about two possible directions that we were considering for our future outreach to university students. (Check out the post Two Answers for more info.) At that time we asked for you to join us in prayer as we waited on the Lord and His direction. Now we’re inviting you to celebrate with us in thankfulness and praise for what the Lord has done! Please keep on reading to find out how God worked to very clearly direct us to a ministry at North Chiang Mai University.

Go North!
We began our move toward university ministry by surveying the campus of North Chiang Mai University (NCU or North) during the second week of March. This school is actually located south of the city of Chiang Mai, just outside the town of Hang Dong. At that time, we didn’t know anything about the school and only knew a bit about the community in which it is located. We took a morning to drive around the area, look for housing near the university and generally explore. We also stopped at the school and spoke with a professor who put us in contact with a missionary who had been teaching English part-time for the past couple terms. From there we arranged a meeting with this man for later that week. Also, we met with others who were able to tell us about the school and the surround area. Overall, we just set out to ask questions and gather as much information as possible. After only a few days, it appeared that God was already opening doors for ministry at North, but our hunt for housing was going nowhere. We had searched on our own (both online and in person), asked others who lived nearby NCU to look for us, and even called several real estate agents. However, each of these methods only resulted in houses that were much too small for a family of five or situated too far from the university. At that point, we were at a dead end and began wondering if North was the wrong direction!

Is Mae Jo the Way to Go?
While keeping the possibility of NCU open, we began focusing our attention toward Mae Jo University (MJU) around third week of March. This school is located about 10 kilometers north of the city of Chiang Mai and nearly a 40 minute drive from where we now live. Within only a day of searching online and one morning of driving around, we were able to locate and view a suitable house that was only 4.5 kilometers from MJU. It was a good size for our family and ministry needs and the owner, who was very kind, lived just down the road. We assured her we were interested and agreed to call her within a few days. We also visited the campus itself and met with two teachers in the Language Center, the second of which turned out to be a Thai-Filipino Christian. She spoke English well and was very helpful as we shared our burden to reach out to students. She told us that there was a possibility of assisting in the English program on campus, but she would need to speak with her director first. After exchanging email addresses and phone numbers, we left feeling hopeful, wondering if this was the place God was leading us to. Later that night, brought even further excitement as we received an email from the lady we had met with, asking us to scan and email Nathan’s education documents to be reviewed by the director of the department. Mae Jo was looking promising! On top of that, toward the end of the week, the owner of the house we had viewed called and told us there were other people interested in seeing it, but she was waiting to hear back from us because she liked our family. We told her that we needed a little more time (both to pray and because we wanted to hear from Mae Jo before signing a lease) and she graciously allowed us until early the following week to make a decision. Surely we’d hear from the university by then!

Decision Time…Right?
That weekend (March 26-27) we spent a lot of time in prayer, asking God for His wisdom as we made a very big decision. Monday morning came and we still hadn’t heard anything from the English teacher at Mae Jo, despite having sent her several messages by email and Facebook. What’s more, although the house near MJU was attractive in many ways, we were simply not at peace about saying yes to it. So now what? How can we go with a house we don’t have peace about? At the same time, how can we go in a direction where there is no house?

An Unexpected Door Opens
That same Monday morning (March 28), Nathan left to teach English to children at an orphanage in Sanpatong, a town south of Hang Dong. He had begun teaching there on Wednesday the week before at the request of a friend. On that first day the director of the children’s home, knowing we were considering ministry at North, told him about a possible rental house in that area. At that time, however, the information wasn’t too promising: “Well, I think it’s located near the university. I don’t think anyone is living there right now. The owner might want to rent it out.” Even though this description wasn’t too hopeful, Nathan agreed to look at it the next day. Thursday came, but there was not an opportunity to go view the house, so we put it out of our mind. Then, the director mentioned the house again on that Monday and even offered to take us to it. Really instead of “it,” we should say “them.” That’s right, the property she took us to included not one, but two houses. The owner explained that they were originally built for her family who wanted to live next door to one another. In time, though, the family moved away and now she was in the market to sell the homes. However, she would also be willing to rent both of them to us for an unbelievable price of $330! Part of what made this so amazing was that Jessica had specifically been praying for a house that would have ample room to home school our kids, provide Nathan with an office space, host university students, and house friends, family and other visitors. Well, God graciously answered with not just an extra room or two, but an entire second house, all for an unbeatable cost. Plus, the house is situated a mere 3 kilometers from North. This was indeed an answer to prayer!

Look What’s Behind Door #2!
After looking at the house, it occurred to us that we hadn’t really talked with anyone at North since we’d first begun our search. Even then, we had only asked some informal questions about helping out on campus. So before going home Nathan stopped by NCU in hopes of meeting with someone in the English department. However, since he didn’t have an appointment and it was already 4:30pm Monday (during summer break, no less) he wasn’t too certain of making any progress. So then, it was quite a surprise when, after asking to see an English professor, he was directed to the office of the Dean of the English Department! Nathan introduced himself, explained his goals (which primarily consisted of assisting a professor in teaching an English course), and then sat in stunned silence as the Dean asked if he would be able to begin teaching a course when the new term begins in June. The next day, Tuesday, Nathan returned to NCU with his résumé and copies of his education documents and it was confirmed that he would begin teaching the sophomore Listening and Speaking English class in just over 2 1/2 months.

Closed Doors
The same day Nathan handed in his credentials, Jessica spoke with the house owner near Mae Jo University and told her that were no longer interested in renting her house. The only thing left to do was contact the English teacher from MJU to let her know that we had decided to go another direction. But, before sending her an email message, she sent one to us in which she apologized for not writing sooner, but that she had never received Nathan’s education documents (we had sent them to two separate email addresses and her Facebook account) and asked if we could send them again. After triple checking to make sure we had sent them to the correct addresses (we had), we could only conclude that God was confirming His call to North by firmly shutting the door to Mae Jo.

All of this took place in about 4 weeks worth of time. Looking back that seems rather quick. However, the reality is that we were able to accomplish what we did during that period because God had been working in advance to prepare everything. We’re confident that He had his hand in these events in order to lead us in His direction. We’re also certain that He responded to your prayers on our behalf. Thank you for partnering together with us to seek God’s leading and for trusting Him to work. We will continue trusting Him as we prepare to move at the beginning of June and begin our work at North later that month.  We can’t wait to see what else He has in store!

Yesterday (Friday) evening, we saw a pediatric neurologist to get a second opinion on Abigail’s condition. This doctor lectures at a large university, works for a major hospital, and was highly recommended by a family who has dealt with childhood epilepsy. After looking over the readout from the EEG and performing some basic tests, this doctor’s opinion was that Abby was misdiagnosed by the first doctor and that she does not have epilepsy. Because she is a specialist in this area, we’re confident about her conclusion. At the same time, the doctor was unable to explain what caused Abigail to pass out last week. Whatever the cause, however, we’re thankful that she hasn’t had any more problems since then and that we could get more definite answers about her overall condition.

We know many of you have been praying and several of you sent messages of encouragement. Others of you gave some helpful advice and insights into our situation. So, we truly thank you! You’ve been a blessing to us and we’re thankful to the Lord for your friendship and love.

By the way, I’m not sure what the price would be in the US for an hour visit to a pediatric neurologist at a major hospital, but here it only cost us a whopping $23. Praise God!

8 missionary kids - Improsos, Maraats and Killions

Hello friends! First of all, thank you for the overwhelming response of love so many of you have shown us since we shared the news about Abigail earlier this week. All of your comments, messages, and phone calls have been very encouraging to us over the last few days.

We’re thankful that since having what we believe was a minor petit mal or absence seizure last Friday, Abigail hasn’t had any more problems. We’re also grateful for several friends who have called or written us with their insights, having had similar experiences with their own children. One such friend advised us to see a pediatric neurologist here in Chiang Mai who was recommended to them by a hospital in Bangkok. What’s more, this doctor works at a hospital that has top of the line EEG testing equipment. How good and gracious God is to provide such a doctor and facility! So, we’ve set up an appointment for this Friday during which we’ll be able to discuss having more tests done. At this point, although the EEG last week indicated epilepsy, we would still like further testing to determine the cause of the seizure. We trust that by this weekend we’ll know more and be able to share it with you.

In the meantime, we continue to rest in the Lord and are encouraged by His people. Just last night, we ate dinner with our teammates, the Maraats, along with fellow TCM missionaries to Kenya, Gardner and Ledith Improso. During the evening we had a time of prayer for each family and then Genesis led in a special time of prayer for Abigail. We are very blessed!

 

Hello friends! We’ve had a full couple days here and want to let you know what’s been happening. Thanks for reading!

On Friday morning as Jessica was putting Abigail’s hair up in braids, Abby suddenly went limp and, had Jessica not been holding on to her arm, would have dropped to the floor. We picked her up and set her on the bathroom counter and noticed she had a glazed look in her eyes as if she wasn’t really awake. Then, only a few seconds later, she was fine. All of this probably lasted only about 15 or 20 seconds.

About mid-morning, we took her to the hospital to run some tests. A routine check-up, a blood test, an x-ray of her chest, and an EKG all returned normal results (and only cost around $55). We asked the doctor if what she experienced could have been a seizure. He said that it was possible and recommended we have an EEG done ($40) as this would test for epilepsy. We went to another medical facility for the EEG and the technician monitoring the readout said that the preliminary results indicated that Abigail’s brainwaves seemed abnormal. We made an appointment at the hospital for Sunday afternoon when we would be told more official results.

Throughout most of Friday, Abby was a bit lethargic, especially after the EEG during which she was asleep. However, that evening she was her normal self. She was even joking around while she and Chloe were playing–”Don’t chase me Chloe, I might faint again!”

On Sunday afternoon, we returned to the hospital and met again with the doctor we saw on Friday. He told us that according to the results of the EEG, it is the opinion of the neurologist that Abigail does have epilepsy. The pediatrician went on to tell us us about a medication she could take, but also said that many experts suggest waiting on medication until a second seizure occurs. He also advised talking with other neurologists and people we know who have epilepsy in order to get more information. Overall, the doctor was very helpful and even humble in his recommendations.

At this point, we’re planning to wait on medication, talk with others we know who have epilepsy, and look into the possibility of having some more tests done.

Of course, all of this has been a bit unnerving. However, we are thankful to the Lord for many things and for the ways He’s been at work in the midst of what has happened. Look at this list of praises!

  • First of all, Abigail had her seizure while Jess was right there with her and holding her arm so she didn’t fall to the ground and hit her head.
  • Secondly, the hospital we went to (we’d only been there once or twice before) had a coordinator on staff who spoke English fluently and the pediatrician was also quite capable in English. This was a huge praise as we would not have been able to understand so many specialized medical terms in Thai.
  • Another praise is that the costs of the tests were very affordable. It was under $100 for a hospital visit and all those tests!
  • Yet another reason to rejoice is that Abigail handled everything so wonderfully during the tests—she didn’t cry while her blood was being drawn or get scared during the different tests. She even said that some of them were fun!
  • Also, we’re so thankful for Abigail’s response after seeing the doctor on Sunday. As we were leaving, Abby asked about whether she had to have more tests done today. Jessica explained that we were just getting results from the test on Friday. Then, Abby asked, “Can you tell me about it, because I wasn’t really paying attention.” So, Jess talked with her about what epilepsy is and what seizures are. She also told Abby that she is still a normal little girl, but that we’ll have to be careful about certain things, such as how she plays. We told her it would be best not to go on the swings at school or play on things that are really high. Through all of this, Abby was so sweet. She even helped by giving other suggestions about how she could be careful!
  • Finally, we are thankful for God’s peace in all this. Yes, it’s a bit scary to think about what could happen since we don’t know when another seizure could take place or how this might affect Abigail’s life in the future (playing sports, driving, etc.). But, despite these unknowns, we are confident that God is protecting her and find comfort in knowing that He knew about this before Abigail was even born! He is good and we have faith that our sweet Abby is in our Heavenly Father’s very tender and capable hands!

Of course we are also thankful for you! We know many of you faithfully pray for our family and ministry and trust that you will now lift up Abigail in prayer as well. We’ll keep you updated.

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